We woke up and got tired of being disappointed by the happily ever after story we’ve been sold.

Conventional psychological discourse deems an individual as “well adjusted” if they’ve shown effective adaptation to their environment. But what if “adapting” is itself pathological, when the environment we’re in is systemically damaging?

We often want one definite answer in life. Something is either right or wrong, good or bad, healthy or unhealthy.

In this work, we also re-parent ourselves to believe that we deserve to have these needs fulfilled. Without that belief, even genuine love and connection from others can be difficult to receive or trust.